The Pros and Cons of Make-Up....and my struggles with it
February 21, 2018
I've started to notice a rather alarming trend.
My face literally has not aged since high school. And it's starting to become much more noticeable.
At first it was just family and friends that noticed. Old pictures elicited raised eyebrows and shock at how little changed I looked. The same reaction (with the addition of a few snide comments) also happened when I donned on a baseball cap and ponytail for the first time in years in front of my family.
Then I went to a young singles events at my church not too long ago - which I'd hadn't done before because I was in school.
The first couple I met literally mistook me for being in high school. Not joking.
Not that it seriously affected our being able to be friends! And not that my ability to make friends is affected by my youthful (and my acne-filled) face. Usually. And this was a totally small incident that really shouldn't be getting under my skin...
BUT....
For someone who is discerning a marriage vocation, this is a major problem! I'm in my early twenties, but most people mistake me for being 4-9 years younger than what I actually am. Which wouldn't be a bad thing if I was in, say, my 40s or something (that would probably be a nice compliment).
However......I don't really want to have a younger guy for a husband. Nor do I want to scare off any guys because of my looks (after all, there still is a heavy stigma for robbing the cradle.....).
Now, I know what you girls are probably wondering...don't you wear make-up, Catherine?
The answer is....
No. Not on a regular basis.
To be honest, I never was a very girly girl at all.
Sure, I had a few tries with makeup as a toddler...that got me in trouble.
As a tween/teen, I never liked the idea of pampering myself. I didn't like having my nails done. Spa days sounded like some sort of torture because you have a bunch of gook on your face and you have to sit still and do nothing. Not very attractive to this independent, tomboyish and easily bored girl.
After high school, I began to start with nail polish and make-up. I find that I still like the natural look on my nails, but make-up and hair....yeah, I can handle that! Still not sure about that spa idea though....LOL.
For professional settings (meetings, presentations, etc.), I'll definitely put on make-up to put my best face forward. I'm not some fresh-faced kid on the block, nor do I wish to convey that image.
But......
Make-up and I have a rather contentious relationship.
Of course I went through the blue eyeshadow fiasco that every girl seems to go through (though mine showed up late - it happened in college *cringes*). I still have a hard time matching skin tone color too. I tan in the summer, and I usually have a light farmers tan on my arms all year round. But the rest of my skin is a light tan/light pink mix. Having both warm and cool tones is great for clothes but tough for makeup, I find. There are other factors...some of which will be explained below.
So, with that recent and alarming trend of being mistaken for a living example of the Fountain of Youth, I've been debating whether or not I should be using make-up more often or not....and I've come up with the following pros and cons:
Pros:
- Make-up is wonderful at hiding blemishes on the face
I've had a pretty severe case of acne since I was about 13, some of which has scarred my face. I have tried literally every home remedy and over the counter medication that I can get my hands on. I'm rather surprised that the doctor never put me on prescription meds. While some of the sections have faded, I still have some really bad areas. And I still get breakouts on a regular basis. Make-up really does help to hide that, as well as any other little things (like dark circles) that occasionally crop up.
St. Thomas Aquinas actually recommends that woman use make-up to cover up blemishes that come from illness and other health issues, so that's an added bonus!
- Make-up can raise self-esteem, and does make me look....well...like I'm in my twenties.
Not need for a long explanation here! I do find that when I wear make-up, I do feel more confident in myself in social situations. I do feel pretty and feminine. And my family and friends have said that I do look older when I'm wearing my make-up.
Cons:
- It can irritate the face
If I do wear make-up, I have to wear a good bit in order to cover up the acne. Which causes my face to itch horribly, even if the makeup is gentle (right now, I'm using ELF makeup products, and I still have problems occasionally). It honestly feels like my face can't breathe, as weird as it sounds, but maybe that's truer than I think because the makeup clogs the pores up. And my face itches enough with the acne without makeup....
- It can take a while to put on.
Especially in my case, when you're dealing with a creme foundation that requires a LOT of powder in order to cement in because you have to put on so much blasted foundation to cover the acne up...and for someone who is used to being rushed out the door, there often is no time to deal with it.
- Too much makeup creates a false or lustful image
St. Thomas Aquinas and St. Cyprian make very clear that the overuse of makeup to deceive or excite lust in others is morally wrong. While it is perfectly good to look your best (especially for the husband!), grossly changing the features via dyes or other chemicals is just unacceptable.
God made your face, and He made it beautiful just as it is!
To be honest, this is the thing that gives me pause the most.
I want people to love me for being me. Not because of any physical beauty that I may have. Because, I know my physical beauty is temporary, whereas my inner beauty is the one that stays. I don't want to use make-up as a crutch or as a way to "catch" a man.
Anybody that marries me, unless he or I finds a magical cure for this blasted acne, is going to have to live with my acne-filled face for a good portion of the time. Not to mention all of the other faults that I possess! And this will be true until either he or I dies, no exceptions.
I'm honestly terrified of the idea that a guy will only see me with makeup, fall in love and marry me, and then be either disappointed, horrified or disgusted by my blotchy, acne-filled, "normal" face. It's probably a girlish and foolish fear, but a fear nonetheless.
So, now there is the awful choice...should I start wearing some makeup on a more daily basis (like when I go out in public) and risk possibly putting out a "false face" or should I leave my youthful face alone (except to get rid of the acne)?
I still don't know which way to go.
Your turn to talk! Do you have any suggestions for me - make-up, acne removal, etc.? Answers to my dilemma? I'd dearly love to hear them!!!!
Old-fashionably yours,
Catherine
I want people to love me for being me. Not because of any physical beauty that I may have. Because, I know my physical beauty is temporary, whereas my inner beauty is the one that stays. I don't want to use make-up as a crutch or as a way to "catch" a man.
Anybody that marries me, unless he or I finds a magical cure for this blasted acne, is going to have to live with my acne-filled face for a good portion of the time. Not to mention all of the other faults that I possess! And this will be true until either he or I dies, no exceptions.
I'm honestly terrified of the idea that a guy will only see me with makeup, fall in love and marry me, and then be either disappointed, horrified or disgusted by my blotchy, acne-filled, "normal" face. It's probably a girlish and foolish fear, but a fear nonetheless.
So, now there is the awful choice...should I start wearing some makeup on a more daily basis (like when I go out in public) and risk possibly putting out a "false face" or should I leave my youthful face alone (except to get rid of the acne)?
I still don't know which way to go.
Your turn to talk! Do you have any suggestions for me - make-up, acne removal, etc.? Answers to my dilemma? I'd dearly love to hear them!!!!
Old-fashionably yours,
Catherine
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Do I have suggestions for you! Okay, I dealt with really bad acne starting around twelve years of age. I still have some acne and some scarring. There's this company, Rodan and Fields, that makes adult acne wash called Unblemish. You can find new packages on Ebay for cheaper than usual price, completely sealed. I wish I would have taken before and after pictures because my acne cleared up A LOT. I still use it to this day. It lasts me a few months (because I sometimes don't use it twice a day...oops XD) You start off using it every other day once a day, but I, uh, I was impatient and jumped right it. It's supposed to be for sensitive skin, too. I'll leave you links at the end of my comment because it is AMAZING! It is a bit pricier, but I do think it's worth it. And like I said, some sales reps sell on Ebay.
ReplyDeleteFor makeup, I use a company called Younique. They make amazing makeup. I don't wear makeup all the time, actually, but I love their liquid and powder foundation. I also use their concealer. There's usually brand reps on Facebook and other websites and you can sent them a picture, if you want, and they can match the tone of your skin so you know what to buy. I am the lightest shade because I'm not able to get a tan. XD Again, this will a bit pricier, but I'm coming up on a year for some of the products I got and I still have near full quantity. They usually have deals and things like that happening. (I'm starting to feel like a brand rep, lol.)
https://www.youniqueproducts.com/
https://www.rodanandfields.com/Shop/Product/UNRJ001
This is the unblemish set I use, but they have other products on their website.
Oh, I already know this is going to be a long comment. Sorry. XD I hope this info helps. Oh, and with unblemish, you can usually find brand reps on social media, too. They do promotions and some discounts...sometimes, lol. Still, it's a great product.
Overall, just remember that you're beautiful the way God made you, no matter what's on the outside. Your heart is evident through your blog posts and you kind comments. <3 <3
~Ivie
I don't mind the monster comments!! I love them dearly, actually.
DeleteThank you so much for telling me about Younique and Unblemish! I've never heard of these ones, and I'll have to check them out!
I've stuck with ELF only because of the price right now (being a broke college graduate has it's downsides) but once I start gaining an income, I'll start looking at some of the more pricier stuff.
Awwww, thank you, Ivie!! You are the sweetest *hugs*
Oh... makeup. I love makeup but I think girls usually forget that it is meant to bring out your natural beauty and cover the blemishes. Not add beauty! Some girls just have their makeup caked over their face...then I don't look at their "true" beauty because I'm too busy looking at all the makeup on their faces. lol
ReplyDeleteDo you happen to be on a probiotic? I take some supplements that help clean out my insides and I have NO acne, with the occasion of maybe one pimple.
I love this post, Catherine! <3
~ Lilly
ahh, that is so true, Lilly! I'd only use makeup to cover up the acne so my natural beauty can shine through, but because it's so bad it feels like I have to cake it on. Yuck!
DeleteI sometimes use a natural probiotic, but I probably should be more proactive about cleaning the insides out :). Consider yourself fortunate! It's a nasty curse, trust me! *nods*
I'm so glad, thank you for commenting, Lilly!
So, I've never worn makeup.... my mom doesn't like it, and I've never wanted to as I don't see the point. But I do care for my face. Here are some things I do:
ReplyDeleteOatmeal face masks: This draws out any bad stuff in your face and helps it stay smooth. Just grind oatmeal, mix with a little water, and spread generously over your face (shoulders and neck, too, if you like). Sometimes I add a little lavender essential oil.
Essential oils are great for skin! Tea tree oil, Lavender, rose mary, myrrh, are some of the best.
Vitamin E oil is great for blemishes and scars. I will put this on my face about once a day, then wash it off after awhile. It's great for growing eyelashes longer, too ;)
Coconut oil is amazing! As is beef gelatin. I use coconut oil to oil pull. I put both the oil and gelatin in my tea a lot, and fry with the oil a lot. Since doing this my hair and eyelashes have grown and thickened, plus my skin glows more. And my teeth are whiter. I also never use toothpaste, but brush with baking soda.
I don't have perfect skin, especially as I was younger and didn't take care of it the best. But the last year since doing all this my skin has improved so much!
Also, it's not bad to be mistaken for younger. Guys you get to know are always ready to ask your age ;) And a lot of guys like girls that look younger. It's not something that turns them away, once they get to know you and know you aren't a young teenager :D
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I can totally understand! My mom doesn't really wear makeup anymore either, and I never really was a fan of it. Like I said, the only thing I would use it for is to help cover the acne and scars.
DeleteI'm already using an oatmeal based soap, but I'll also try the mask too. I also have a herbal oil that has been helping some.
I've heard of Vitamin E oil as being great for the skin, but haven't gotten my hands on any. I get most of my vitamin E from natural sunlight.
I tried coconut oil before, but found that it was too oily for my skin to handle. Olive oil seems to go better I find.
Well, no, it usually isn't bad...it's the getting mistaken for the young teenager bit that has been the problem. Most of the guys seem to steer clear because of that, I find. Doesn't help that I associated with the younger crowd for a long while for lack of other companions....
Thank you so much for those suggestions Keturah!!!
DeleteI get vitamin E at walmart.. it's with the vitamins and such close to the pharmacy, and you can get a whole bottle of liquid :D Also, search Trim Healthy Mama. I use all their skin products.. they are the best :D
DeleteI get that. I get mistaken for being 16 at times, and that's no fun. But I've also been mistaken for 27 once... ;0 lol. I do like younger girls, but I've got better at hanging out with all ages, and my age. :D
Oh really??? I typically avoid Wal-Mart like the plague if I can, but if it's at Wally World, I outta be able to find it elsewhere....
DeleteAgreed! It's rather rare that I get mistaken for being older. The problems of having a baby face :). I'm also getting somewhat better - the young adult group has been helping!
Oh, yeah, I don't really like Walmart either... but I don't have a better place to go ;/
DeleteThat is nice, though! :D Good luck :D
Ummm...I don't think you need make up to fall in love with someone, he will love you for what you are...and I don't think you would need to worry about scaring anybody off.
ReplyDeletehowever you could wear make up every once in a while (also I like the name of the brand your using.) But I think if it still irritates you, you should find a brand that doesn't make you itch (maybe an all natural brand.)
I hope I was helpful!:)
-Quinley
Oh I know I don't need makeup for "ensnaring" a guy...It's just that most guys in their mid twenties aren't looking at 16-18 year olds to marry. So unless the guy knows my age, he's going to assume that I am in my late teens and therefore "too young" to consider. That, and if I ever decide to frequent a bar (which is an unlikely prospect), I could have trouble with the bouncer too.
DeleteELF is okay, but I'm not totally satisfied with it, especially that I have to put a lot on in order to make a difference. I'm seriously thinking of using an all natural brand...if I can find one.
Thank you so much, Tes!!
Haha, I can so relate to your issue! I'm 18, but often mistaken for about 14-15. I have a very young-looking, "cute-sy" face. (It doesn't help that I'm barely over 5 feet tall.) Makeup certainly helps one to look older.
ReplyDeleteI grew up dancing, so naturally I wore makeup quite often. By junior high and high school I was wearing a natural makeup look everyday (unless I was just lounging about the house and not going anywhere that day). For me, that was just what I liked as I have always been a "girly-girl". But I understand that not every girl loves doing herself up every morning.
However, I cannot stress to you enough the importance of using the right kind of makeup. You mentioned using elf...and honestly I would recommend you try a different brand. Better brands feel better on your skin and cause less damage. I think it probably differs from person to person, but cheap makeup is still cheap makeup no matter who wears it. (Not saying you have to break your bank account for your makeup, of course.) Also, making sure that you use good, clean brushes...which you probably already knew. :) Natural makeup products tend to be better, like, for example, the mascara I use now is 100% organic and I love it--best mascara I've ever tried.
I can understand your fear of putting forth a 'false' image and attracting the wrong sort of guy--which is not foolish at all! I find that simply making sure the makeup looks as natural as possible for an everyday look is the best way to approach it. That's why I don't wear eyeshadow, blush, eyeliner, etc. Even mascara isn't totally necessary; I just like it to thicken up my lashes a little. Typically, though, just some foundation, concealer, and powder is not really deceptive at all.
I can't really offer any good advice as regards care of acne because I have no experience...but if you're using creams/medications, I feel like you're probably doing the best you can. Any time I get a blemish or two here or there, I just try to make sure all the makeup I covered it with gets washed off and I keep my skin clean and moisturized.
Sorry for such a long comment, but I hope it was helpful in some small way. :)
AHHHH, SOMEONE WHO KNOWS MY PAIN. I've been mistaken for being my aunt's sister (and she's only about 3 years younger than my mom.....). My dad also has a fairly youthful face still, so I blame him more. LOL. I'm also about 5ft tall, so that doesn't help either.
DeleteI danced for a little while too when I was a kid! I remember that stage makeup...and how long I had to sit still for that while Mommy did it for me. Gah. I still hate mascara and refuse to wear it because of that. Not to mention I have fairly thick lashes anyway, so I don't need it (and I look horrible in it).
I got ELF as a stop-gap measure because....well, my mom and I goofed when we bought my first Artistry set (which is the Amway brand of makeup and high quality stuff) and bought the wrong shades. So I looked terrible, and I needed makeup for some professional meetings coming up. Now that Artistry has totally redone their shades, I need to sit down with Mom and my grandmother and find either a new Artistry shade or a new makeup brand. If I do go with a new makeup brand, it'll definitely be a more natural brand.
I've been ditching the eyeshadow and lipstick because of that too! I find that I just don't need it - my lips have a nice pink color and my eyes are really intense as it is (I have a bright green/blue hazel) so eyeshadow is really hard to match. I'll sometimes use a little blush to replace the natural blush line that the foundation wiped out (because of the shade difference and the acne, I still have to cover my entire face with the stupid ELF concealer and foundation). I would dearly love to get a matching shade so I don't have to use so much and ditch the blush too!
I stopped using medicated creams for the most part because they either made my face even more blotchy or they really irritated my face. I've just been trying to keep it clean and moisterized by a natural soap and oil. So far, it's doing okay...
I loved this monster comment, Elanor! And yes, it was totally helpful :)
I had written a long comment, but the screen reloaded or something.... darn. >.<
ReplyDeleteAnyways, I don't really struggle with acne, it's not really in my genetics. But I have friends who do and I never thought less of them when I first met them because of that.
If a guy can't love you without makeup, he isn't worth it anyway. <3
I use Mary Kay products and then just drugstore brands for my eye makeup.
I LOVE makeup which is weird because I go to a bunch of homeschool groups and I'm usually the only one wearing a whole face and I get stereotyped a lot, but I just really enjoy it. ^_^
I actually get mistaken for older, I thought it was my makeup so I went for a few weeks without it in the summer and I still had older guys approaching me and I still got mistaken for a college student because workers at stores would ask me if I was ready for college again.
A lot of my friends are older now and I think they think I'm their age, but I don't really care. It's only sad when they graduate and leave me behind. :/
My mom thinks it's just because I dress more hip and that I carry myself with confidence most of the time. My mom actually has a baby face so we get mistaken for sisters a lot of the time. XD
Honestly, (going back to the makeup), do what you're most comfortable with. If you really feel fake with makeup on don't wear it, but I really think it's the heart that matters not how much makeup you wear or how little you wear. But if you're really struggling with self-esteem because of your bare face makeup can help boost you and make you realize the pretty aspects of your face. ^_^
I still wrote a long comment, sorry!
DeleteDon't worry! I love monster comments, Gray!!
DeleteThank heavens, it really is a curse some days. I'm not sure where in our genetics it lies, but 3 out of the 5 kids in my family managed to get a pretty bad case of it. My one brother did have to use medication for a while to control it.
So true :). And I don't want a guy that doesn't love me without it.
See, I'm the opposite! I tend to hang around the younger crowds - my church in college had a small college crowd, but they all went to one university so it was super hard to get to know them. So I hung out with Lia and the more high school, early college group. Same with most of my other friends, most are younger than I am - though I'm starting to gain some friends that are my age and older. I'm sure it has something to do with the fact that I'm the oldest sister and I was constantly exposed to younger crowds...I never liked the idea of being the youngest of the bunch. *shrugs*
I'll probably go with the bare minimum until this acne finally clears up. I'm not usually bothered by it (I mean, I have dealt with self-confidence issues and low self-esteem as a teen, but a lot of it has been resolved.)
Thank you so much, Gray!! *hugs*
Hi Catherine! I also deal with a bit of acne, but it is not very bad. However, it is enough to make me want to wear concealer. And I use blush too because with just concealer I would look kind of like a ghost lol. I sometimes wear eye makeup, too (eye shadow and mascara).
ReplyDeleteAs with everything, I think there has to be a balance. I don't go crazy with makeup and cake it on and feel like my face must look perfect every single moment. I choose to wear makeup not to add beauty, but to cover blemishes, enhance the beauty God has given me, and it is also a way to make people look at your face and smile rather than other parts of the body.
I totally understand your concerns on a guy being attracted to you solely because of your beauty. Guys know though that girls wear makeup and that they won't always see her like that if they marry her. Also we would hope guys wouldn't marry us just because of our looks. The right kind of guy will be attracted to you because of your character, although it does help to look nice or guys might sometimes be turned off in the beginning.
I hope these thoughts help you. I hope I don't sound preachy though. I just wanted to share my thoughts. :) Actually, I was so surprised to see this post because I am currently working on a post on makeup on my blog! I will *probably* post it in a week or so.
Zelie
underherstarrymantle.wordpress.com
I know your pain, Zelie! My concealer is more of a tan color but that natural blush line doesn't come through so it really does look like a mask :).
DeleteDefinitely! I really try hard not to be vain about my face, though to be honest, I do get sick of seeing my face covered with red spots all the time. And I totally agree! That is precisely what make-up is supposed to be used for :).
So true. Sometimes the self-conscious female in me (that dearly wishes to be attractive to the guys) needs a gentle reminder every once in a while :). Precisely, I really don't my acne to be a turning off point for guys (wherein lies a lot of my problem).
They do indeed, and you are not preachy in the least!
Oh really?! I'll definitely check it out!!!
Thank you so much for your comment, Zelie!!
I don't wear makeup everyday, but I will if I'm going out or especially to church. My mom uses Juice Beauty makeup - it's made with organic juices. However, it's a little pricey. She also uses Burt's Bees makeup, which is supposed to be good for your skin.
ReplyDelete- Anna
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I may also start wearing at least a concealer when going to church or if I'm going to a big social event.
DeleteI'll have to check both of those brands out! I would dearly love to use a more natural brand if I could :)
Thank you for commenting, Anna!
Wow, I related to this post a ton! I tend to have the opposite problem: people think I'm 2-4 years older, which can make things a bit awkward when they learn I'm not legally an adult yet :P
ReplyDeleteI have struggled with wondering if I should wear makeup. I wear a bunch of concealer when I'm out in public and such, as I have a bit of acne/blemishes sometimes, but I also think about wearing a bit more. I've wrestled with it a lot and keep coming to the conclusion that there's not really any reason for me to wear makeup right now.
I wish I had some suggestions for you, but most of what I use is leftover from when I danced on stage. But yeah, my face is really sensitive to it as well. Especially my eyes. Wearing mascara and eyeliner makes it so I have to blink every few seconds XD
Anyway, I loved this post! I related to it a lot and it gave me some food for thought :)
REALLY? Wow! I can understand how that can be really awkward.
DeleteI understand the struggle...if the concealer does it's job, there probably isn't much other need for other makeup.
It's okay! I remember that stage makeup all too well. I used to be a dancer myself for a couple of years, and I hated wearing all that stage makeup. I hated mascara the most!! Not only did it make my eyes look really huge and Halloweenish, but the kind that I had to use was clumpy and disgusting. And because I deal with dry eyes a lot now, it would doubly bother me if I ever tried to wear it again (with my dumb luck, I'd smear it everywhere, LOL)
Awww, I'm so glad!!! Thank you, Audrey!!!
Hey, Catherine... do you mind if I write a blog post similar to yours? I want to use some of your pros and cons. :)
ReplyDeleteGo ahead!! My list is actually a generalized one that you often find in other "Christian girl makeup" posts, I just placed my own spin on it.
DeleteSince the only time I ever worn makeup is during plays I have no helpful comments. In fact this comment is remarkably unhelpful. But anyway, as soon as I started reading your post, where you were saying everyone thought you were younger then you are, I started thinking about LOTRs. Do you have the Ring of Power?
ReplyDelete~E
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Heehee, that's okay, Eowyn!!
DeleteActually, if anyone does, it's my dad. My daddy has a babyface too, and it's worse than mine....like literally his face hadn't really aged that much since he was 30. I'm fairly sure I inherited his looks...LOL
I'm sorry I'm not reading all the comments. I can totally relate to a lot of what you said in your post! Just like Elanor, I'm 18, short, and mistaken for 14-15 or so ALL. THE. TIME. It's even worse when my younger sister is around me because she looks older and is taller than me. :/
ReplyDeleteI started wearing make-up regularly just about 2 years ago. I don't have acne, so I apply pretty lightly. But it has become important to me when I go out, and especially to special events, just because it helps me to look my age.
Please don't worry about getting married and the guy not liking you once he sees your face without make-up. If he is really the right man, of course he will love you for much, much more than just the beauty of your face. A reasonable amount of make-up compliments your God given beauty and draws appropriate attention to your countenance. God has the right man in store for you who will love you for your inner beauty!! Keep up hope and trust Him! <3
Aggggghhhh, I know what you mean. I swear I'm going to be mistaken for being my younger brothers "younger sister" one of these days.....
DeleteNow that I'm not hanging out with a high school/college crowd anymore, my female relatives and I have also come to the conclusion that I should start wearing a light coat of makeup in order to look more like my age.
*hugs* Thank you so much for those kind words, Sarah!! In my head, I know that but sometimes my fearful self-conscious needs a reminder.
Quick comment but for foundation and stuff have you ever tried Burts Bees? It's "organic" make-up and that's what my mom and I use for our powder/foundation. I really don't like using mascara but I LOOOOVE putting eyeshadow on for some reason......But yeah, you should check out Burts Bees and see if that helps instead of ELF!
ReplyDeleteNo, I haven't tried it! I'll definitely have to check that out!!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Ceci!!
HOW DID I NEVER COME TO THIS BLOG OF YOURS BEFORE O.o Anyway here I am now! And I really relate to not wearing make up! I haven't touched it in my life xD not bc I have anything against it but bc ... my mom hasn't worn make up in forever so I never had the chance to pick it up from anyone. Also I don't think I need it?? Lol. Great post! Great blog!
ReplyDeleteIt apparently isn't advertised that well, LOL. To be honest, I've done more with The Rebelling Muse than this one.
DeleteI can understand!! My mom doesn't really wear makeup anymore either. And if you don't need it, there is no reason to pick it up anyways!
Thank you Lisa! *hugs*
This was really interesting!
ReplyDeleteSee, I've never been mistaken with being younger than I am, but people always guess me to be either the age I am or one to two years older. My thirteen year old sister however, is very physically mature for her age and really tall (as am I) and is often mistaken for being the same age as me. All her friends her age look so much younger and only come up to her shoulders in height, and so that can make her self conscious at times.
I usually wear natural looking makeup daily, not because I think I need it, but because I really enjoy the art aspect of it and putting it on! Also, think me strange, but I love wearing false eyelashes for whenever I'm in a drama production. XD I think they're fun.
I can see though how it would be hard worrying about whether or not guys will think you're in your teens. However, I'm sure most guys will quickly see past that with your maturity and thoughtfulness! God has a wonderful guy out there for you. :)
xx
Mira <333
Thank you Mira!
DeleteThat is so interesting! I'm sure it's awkward either way (I have been mistaken for being able to drink, though to be fair at the time I was six months off my 21st birthday...).
I love natural-looking make-up too. Really? I don't think I could stand false eyelashes. I'd pull them off by accident, I'm sure!
Aww, thank you! *hugs* I'm sure He does as well, I just have to find him...LOL.
I have lots of acne. And it is really annoying because I am the only one in my family with it. As I am also really tall people always think I am older than I am.
ReplyDeleteI tend to use make-up only if I have a really special occasion, which isn't often. I also had a really bad habit of running down things/into things when I was little, and I had to get quite a few stiches. So, I have a few scars on my face. So on the special occasions I do wear it so I don't look like Frankenstien...
I think that if you like wearing make-up and it makes you feel good, go for it! But if it is uncomfortable, or irratating, don't force yourself.
You are so amazing, <3
A great post, Catherine! :-D
ReplyDeleteI don't wear make-up because I have severe allergies to almost anything chemical (or with dyes) touching my skin, and most make-up has some of that. Instead I use organic aloe vera to help with acne and blemish control. It leaves my skin feeling soft but also helps with over all health of the skin.
I have been mistaken for being up to 5 or 6 years younger than my age, but that should not be considered a bad thing. Over time you may wish to look younger. Using make-up tends to stress out the face and people often look quite old at an early age because of this.
Another interesting fact... Most virtuous men prefer women who don't wear make-up. I can't even remember the number of men who have expressed this to me. Make-up draws more secular men towards you in more of a physical manner, but a good man generally will prefer a lady who does not wear make-up, at least in excess.
Also, it might sound silly, but a lot of men prefer to have a younger looking wife. Men really appreciate the look of youthfulness in women.
Anyhow, wishing you all of the best! You shall be in my prayers!
Sincerely,
Rita
The encouragement and appreciation thereof is mutual! :-)
ReplyDeleteGod bless!
Rita