Abstinence Does Not Equal Boring Food (M4M)

March 10, 2023

+JMJ+

Blessings! 

I hope your Lent is going well! I found this old post that I had published in Maidens for Mary several years back while I was finishing up my post on Byzantine fasts. So since we're in Lent, I thought I would share it with you all! 


During this season of Lent, I wanted to write a post about abstinence and some ways that people can observe it. I know that there are several myths about it, but there is one that I wish to address today: the myth that abstinence equals boring food. And that is simply not true!


There are various forms of abstinence that the Church has implemented over the centuries:

1. Dry foods only. This was only in monastic communities, in antiquity.

2. Traditional abstinence that only allowed grains, nuts, fruits, and vegetables.

3. Current abstinence that allows dairy, eggs and seafood/fish to be consumed.

Because of the mercy of the Church, we have a lot of options available to us to make suitable meals without sacrificing nutritional needs. There is no need to have fish sticks every Friday. But even with traditional abstinence, there are a lot of options. When I observe traditional abstinence, I explore different cultural preparations of grains and vegetables to keep it interesting. 

Below are some meal suggestions for Friday Abstinence, broken up into various categories. This is not an exhaustive list, so feel free to explore other options!



Seafood

1. Fish
        Fish is a big part of my diet, which I'll explain down below. One fish that we use a lot is tuna. With tuna, you can do the following: chowder, tuna melts, tuna salad, and tuna burgers, to name a few variations.
I also recommend salmon, catfish, perch, trout, bass, flounder, tilapia, halibut, and grouper. The only fish that I would not recommend fully is bluefish.
I usually have my fish baked, which can have a variety of spices with it. I personally like to use citrus with mine. There is also the fried fish, or even boiled fish (boiled halibut with sugar and salt is really good). I've even made fish tacos!

2. Shellfish
         Shellfish can also be expensive, depending on how far from the coast you are, and can be difficult to cook. However, that shouldn't stop you from trying shrimp, clams, oysters, mussels, scallops, crab, or lobster. Unless you happen to be cursed with a shellfish allergy like I do *cries*.

2. Calamari
         Which is squid, in case anyone was wondering. It's really good, trust me. I really like it fried, but there are other variations, I'm sure.



Veggie Dishes

1. Chinese Style Stir-fried vegetables over Rice
         Many vegetables can be stirfried successfully, including broccoli, peppers, and squash. Chinese vegetables like water chestnuts and bok choy are also really good too. Flavor them with ginger, soy sauce and other spices to create a punch!

2. Salads
        Salads can have many different ingredients. No two salads have to be identical. Ingredients that I put in my salads include: lettuce, purslane, spinach, bok choy, celery, cucumber, radishes, peas, corn, carrots, peppers, dried cranberries, cheese, and occasionally raisins. Other vegetables such as tomatoes, beans and other legumes may also be considered.

3. Boiled root crop vegetables
       My grandfather introduced me to this idea. He would take turnips, parsnips, carrots and potatoes, boil them all, and mash them into a beautifully tasting puree. I recently did this for part of a Lenten meal, and I highly recommend.



Eggs

1. Egg salad
       I have this for breakfast fairly frequently. Not only laden with good fats but a high source of protein and energy!

2. Quiches
       I admit that I haven't done much with these, but I've seen others make them with great success!

3. Breakfast for dinner
        Scrambled, poached, fried, hard-boiled, soft-boiled...the list on how to prepare eggs is extensive. Like with veggies, if you're sick of having it one way, try another!

4. (NEW): Omelets
         I have just started to perfect the art of omelet making. You'll have to skip the meat, of course, but there are plenty of cheese and veggie omelets to make! 



Italian Fare

1. Spaghetti
       It may seem weird without the meatballs, but I use it as a side dish to a lot of different meals. Just don't forget to use either a traditional mariana, or a 3 cheese sauce!

2. Pizza
      No sausage, pepperoni or meatlovers pizzas allowed, but there is always green pepper, veggie pizzas as well as the old standby: cheese pizza.

3. Other Pasta dishes
       One of my families mainstay Friday meals is baked ziti, with riccotta and mozzerella cheese. There is also fetticine alfredo, cheesy or veggie lasagnas (I highly recommend Stouffers Veggie Lasagna!), tortelini, mac and cheese, stuffed shells, ravioli, and so much more!

My first Tuna Chowder
Copyright: Catherine Hawthorn

Meatless Soups

1. Fish Soups
          This usually takes the form of either seafood gumbos, or chowders such as clam or tuna chowder. I highly recommend the latter, especially Life Currents' version of it, which you can find HERE.

2. Veggie Soups
          While this immediately brings to mind various tomato based veggie soups, there are others. Corn chowder is really excellent (although you will miss the bacon), and I've even made a vegetarian chili that I really like.



So, people may be wondering....how do you get such a variety in your meals?

I must admit, it is with lots of practice. Like most Traditional Catholics, I abstain from meat on almost all Fridays.

Why do I do this? Wasn't that practice removed at Vatican II?
Indeed, the penalty of sin was removed. Lent is the only time in which abstinence is still mandatory.

In reality, Canon Law still states that we must observe some form of penance on all Fridays of the year. In most cases, this takes the form of extra prayers or personal penances. The USCCB even goes as far as to call Friday a "mini Lent". For more information, I would recommend The Pastoral Statement on Penance and Abstinence, which you can find HERE.

Is abstaining from meat on all Fridays an extraordinary penance? The modern Church seems to think so, because meat is so commonplace (USCCB). Yet, wouldn't it be more of a pleasing penance if we observed this "mini Lent" by giving up an ordinary thing that gives us pleasure? I certainly am more likely to forget say an extra chaplet or pray the Seven Sorrows devotion. Whereas, the abstaining from meat is a visible sign of penance and one that is most likely to be remembered.

And, abstinence is one of those great works in which demonic activity can be eliminated. If we are serious about our Faith and the preservation of our souls, we need to be soldiers or shields of Christ.

So I challenge you, my fellow Catholics, to use Lent as a jump-start to further your journey to successful abstinence and to even start keeping the "mini-Lents". Your sacrifices to God are never in vain, so do not be discouraged!

In corde Mariae, 

Catherine

My One-Day Byzantine Fasts

March 07, 2023

+JMJ+ 


The season of fasting is upon us once again! 

I must admit, fasting and abstinence was hard for me in the first couple of years I practiced my Faith. I was borderline hypoglycemic for much of my teens and early 20s. Plus, Fridays were often were marked by those nasty fishsticks, or other rather boring substitutes for meat. 

Once I went out to college, I began to experiment with my own food choices. When looking for resources, I found this blog called Finer Femininity. I highly encourage you Catholic ladies to check that blog out. The author, Mrs. VanPutten, often publishes excerpts of books dealing with the spiritual life and Catholic culture. It is through her that I truly met Maria von Trapp. 

When I first read an excerpt about traditional Lenten practices from her on Finer Femininity, I was floored. (for those who wish to find it, Mrs. VanPutten republishes it every year at the start of Lent, under "From Septuagesima to Ash Wednesday - Maria von Trapp"). I couldn't believe that people gave up so much for Lent! Even more so when I discovered that Byzantine Catholics still follow those ancient standards! 

What are these standards exactly, you might ask? 

What is not allowed: animal products (meat, animal fats, dairy, eggs), wine and oil (weekdays only)

What is allowed: fruits, grains, nuts, veggies, plant-based food. 

Basically, it's veganism. Just without the ideological trappings. 

Sounds very penitential, no? I certainly thought so. 

Admittedly, I was curious. I love a challenge. I thought, if they could do it, why can't I? 

Then one day, I asked myself  NO, the Holy Spirit asked me - why don't I experiment with doing a Byzantine style fast for Lent one year? 



Obviously, I was not going to do be able to do this for the entirety of Lent. For one, I was going to get bored and sick of the foods that were allowed. Two, I was afraid of losing weight (I was already skinny, I didn't need anorexia). And besides, wise priests have always said to break fasting in slowly. So I decided to try doing Byzantine style fasts on one or two of the two canonical fast days - Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. 

The first Lent I tried it was 2019. For my main meal, I had plain quinoa, a salad with no dressing, and a grapefruit. To say that it was unpalatable was an understatement. Why I didn't give it up after that is one of life's greatest mysteries.  

The second was 2020, in which I made a sweet potato quinoa chili. I had had before at Lia's house but this was my first time making it myself. While I really liked how it turned out, my family wasn't a huge fan of it. I also made salads and bread that year.  

I believe I skipped 2021, for reasons that I honestly do not remember. Most likely, I ended up missing my night to cook because I was waitressing, and hence ate whatever my mom made. 

For 2022, I decided to do Veggie Quesadillas. Obviously, with me skipping the cheese. Which was probably just as well, because I had horrendous stomach pains the night before from something I ate. I used breadcrumbs as a binder, which was a smart move in hindsight. Salsa and fajita seasoning are spicy and the breadcrumbs mitigated just enough that I didn't have to reach for the ranch. However, I wouldn't chalk it up as a total success - quesadillas definitely need cheese in order for them to work. 

I ended up missing Ash Wednesday this year because I was stuck buying food instead of making it. But this doesn't mean that I'm giving up on this practice entirely, far from it! However, I have still been struggling with finding food that still tastes decent and is culinarily sound....and something that all of my family will eat.

Between 2022 and 2023, I have been slowly gathering up recipes that could be used for Byzantine fasts. This has led to some rather questionable search results - apparently Pinterest thinks I'm vegan now, lol. The main problem has been that many vegan staples such as chickpeas, mushrooms, lentils, etc. are foods that my family doesn't touch. I suppose many of these experiments will have to wait until I get my own kitchen, lol. 

That being said, there are a couple of resources that I have either found helpful or I will be checking out in the near future. 

The first is the YouTube channel Eastern Hospitality, which is co-hosted by a Byzantine monk and nun. It's a pity that this channel didn't last long because their recipes look really awesome and they had some great insights on Byzantine traditions! 

The second is the book The Joy of Fasting which is co-written by Scott Hahn. This Lenten cookbook features several recipes that can be adapted to fit in the Byzantine requirements. 

The third is the cookbook The ByziMom's Guide to Great Fast Meals. This is the one that I haven't checked out yet, but I really want to! The story behind this book is amazing. This woman and her family have basically moved to observing the Byzantine fast 365 days a year because of a serious health condition. Obviously, they had a lot of time for trial and error, so they must know what they are doing! 

This journey is definitely not over. I think this will be a long journey, but it will be a very satisfying one. And I encourage you all to join me in it! 

What sort of Lenten meals do you do? Do you have any traditional favorites? I'd love to hear them! 

And, if you need inspiration for Lenten meals, I have another post coming this week! 

God bless,

Catherine 

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