Happy Feast of the Annunciation! Can you believe it is now 9 months exactly to Christmas?

So, quite a few months ago, I snitched this really long, but really cool tag from Sarah @ Life of a Homeschooler. You can view the original post HERE.

This was one of those tags where I couldn't pass it up. I mean, it's a tag about my Faith! I know I don't talk enough about my Faith on this blog and it's an omission that I feel rather keenly. Though I do have an outlet in Maidens for Mary, so if you wish to see more of my Faith posts, check that out!

So without any more ceremony, let us begin! 


1. What is your rite?

Latin Rite, Extraordinary Form. Otherwise known as the Traditional Latin Mass or the Tridentine Mass. It's one of the oldest rites in the Catholic Church and has been relatively unchanged for 1000 years.

As a child, I did go to the Ordinary Form, which is also called the Norvus Ordo (New Order) or English Mass. I also went for short periods during some summer jobs and while traveling.

To be quite honest, I very much prefer the Latin. You have to experience it several times in order to understand it's complexity, but the reverence and beauty of the TLM to me is a more fitting liturgical act of worship towards God. The Ordinary Form is so watered down that it's an almost mindless. No wonder so many young people are flocking to tradition!


2. Cradle/Convert/Revert

Oh dear, this is where it gets complicated.

You see, I was baptized Catholic. But, my parents are in a mixed marriage - my mother is Episcopalian/Anglican and my father is Catholic. As a child, I was raised in both faiths. Which kinda disqualifies me from being a "cradle Catholic" in spite of my early baptism, since I wasn't receiving sacraments.

After several years of study of the faith, I slowly converted (some would say reverted) to the Catholic Faith, receiving my first Confession, Communion, and Confirmation when I was 15. So I always say that I'm a convert or a revert, rather than a cradle Catholic.


Year Baptized: 

The year in which I was born, which was in the mid 90s.


Year Received First Communion:

The year in which I was 15. I know, I'm being super vague. But, as of right now, I'm in obedience to my parents for keeping my exact age a secret.


Confirmation Saint:

St. Catherine Laboure. I was very devoted to St. Catherine Laboure and the Miraculous Medal when I was converting to the Faith, so I took her name when I received Confirmation. And, it just so happens that my Sodality medal is the Miraculous Medal.





Name of Current Parish:

Mater Dei.


Parish Groups you belong to: 

Young Adults Group - which, after a long absence is back meeting again (Deo Gratias!).

Mixed Choir - we have a mixed choir/schola and I've been a member for a year. I quite love it.

I'm also a member of the Immaculate Heart Women's Sodality, which after years of hiatus is back meeting again! 

I've been toying with also joining the Meal Train and with the idea of starting some kind of a sewing group at church, as there are several young women that want to learn those skills :). I've also had a hankering to be an advisor for the Junior Sodality, which recently reformed in our parish.


Prayers You Say Everyday: 

4 Morning Offerings, Litany of Humility, Resolution to Follow Christ, Acts of Adoration, Faith, Hope and Charity, St. Thomas Prayer for Purity, 3 Hail Marys', Evening Rosary, Litany of the Most Precious Blood, Act of Contrition, Prayers for a Happy Death, Commendation to the Sacred Heart....and I think I'm missing a few aspirations in there....


I also say a prayer for my future spouse, a vocation discernment prayer (for career purposes) and the Angelus on a somewhat regular basis.



Religious Items You Travel With: 

White lace Chapel Veil (both in purse and in glove compartment)
Rosary (both in purse and glove compartment)
Miraculous Medal (sometimes two, in jewelry box)
Catholic Girls Guide by Fr. Lasance (this has been doubling as a devotion book during Mass because I lost my missal a few years ago and have never replaced it.....) 
An old Brown Scapular for the shower/pool (so I don't ruin the one I wear all the time)
A string with a relic, a Miraculous Medal, a St. Gabriel medal and a St. Benedict medal. I call it my sacramental chain, LOL. 

Sometimes, I'll also carry a spiritual reading book too. But those are the items that I travel with regularly. 


Do you go to Adoration?

Frankly, I don't. There isn't an Adoration chapel near enough to me that I know of, and it's not something that the Catholic members of my family do on a regular basis. So unless it's at the church I go to Mass at, I rarely go at all.


Last Time You Went to Confession?

March 12, during a retreat we had at church. I try to go once a month, unless I get into trouble, LOL.


Color of your favorite rosary?

Light pink. It's a rosary with Our Lady of Fatima that I received on my First Communion from my Junior Sodality.

Close favorites are a light blue one that my dad gave me, and a red one that Lia's family gave me.




Convert that helped your faith?

My dear friend Annalaura, who converted from atheism (or was it agnosticism?) a few years after I converted and has been a great encouragement in my vocation discernment and journey towards sanctification. Not to mention, traditional femininity.


Cradle Catholic that helped your faith?

My confirmation sponsor, who instructed me in my Faith for several months before I was received into the church. 


Weirdest thing about being Catholic?

I guess the weirdest thing about being Catholic is being part of the oldest counter-cultural movement in the world.


Personal Examples:
I celebrate Christmas through Dec. 25-Feb 2 instead of Nov-Dec like most people.
I wear skirts because the Church has taught me much about feminine dignity, which no one recognizes now.

I mean, the Church has been opposed to worldly fashions and ideas for over 2000 years and it has survived in spite of them! In the eyes of the world....what could be more weirder?


Best Thing about being Catholic? 

Having a mother in the Blessed Virgin Mary. In fact, it was this distinction that drew me to the Catholic Faith, because in no other Christian sect is Her pious example or unique role as mediator/intercessor even acknowledged, never mind honored.

We Catholics take very seriously Our Lord's words on the Cross to St. John, "Son, behold thy Mother". St. John, who is only distantly related to Our Lord, represented all of us. The Apostles certainly knew and respected her very much, and loved her as their own Mother.

After all, what other creature has a God willingly bound Himself in obedience to (other than St. Joseph)? What other creature could perfectly follow His Will? It is only befitting that She, humbly immaculate human being, should have an exalted role in Heaven and be a mother to all Christians.




Your Patron Saints? 

St. Michael, patron of my family
St. Megan (Margaret Ward), my baptismal patron saint
St. Catherine Laboure, my confirmation patron saint

St. Isadore the Farmer or St. Northburga, since I do have an agriculture degree
St. Philomena, patron of the Junior Sodality I was involved with as a girl
St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, patron of the cause of my mother and brother's conversion


Favorite Saints?

St. Augustine, St. Monica, St. Joan of Arc, St. Thomas More, St. Bernadette Soubirous, St. Anthony of Padua, St. Thersea of Avila, St. Therese of Lisieux, St. Mary Magdalene, St. Cecilia, St. Jacinta Marto, St. Padre Pio, St. Kateri Tekakwitha, St. Gianna Molla, St. Dominic Savio, St. Maria Goretti, St. Catherine of Siena, Pope St. Pius X, St. Maximilian Kolbe, St. Damien of Molokai, St. John Fisher, St. John Vianney......among various others.


Favorite Parable?

I love all of the Parables, so it was really hard to pick a favorite. 

Being of an agricultural bent, I found the Parable of the Sower (Wheat and Cockle) and the Parable of the Laborers in the Vineyard to be my favorites out of all of them.

Though I must admit, the Parable of the Wicked Steward has always fascinated me too....



Favorite Psalm?

Psalms 30 and 22 are my two favorite Psalms.

Psalm 30 resonated a lot with me when I first read it. Hope is a difficult thing to keep alive when going through spiritual trouble. The verses, "Be thou unto me a God, a protector, and a house of refuge to save me. For thou art my strength and my refuge; and for they name's sake thou wilt lead me and nourish me." have been almost a constant prayer for me.  
 
I should note that the numbering system is slightly different in the Douay Rheims Bible. Our Psalm 22 is called Psalm 23 in most Protestant Bibles. I can only imagine that my Psalm 30 is known as Psalm 31. I'm not sure which Psalm the Protestant reformers split up to create this numbering system, but it is worth noting so none of my Protestant friends are confused.


Favorite Religious Order?

Oh gracious, there are so many that I like.

The one that I like the most is the Sisters of Charity founded by St. Vincent de Paul. In the strict sense of the word, they are not a religious order...but in practicality, they are. I like them because they are an active order (rather than comtemplative), which suits my active personality much more. And it is the order of 2 of my patron saints.

I do also like the Benedictines, and the Carmelites. While many favorite saints of mine are Carmelites, I do like the Benedictine philosophy of "ora et labora" much better.



Favorite Catholic singer/band

Clamavi De Profundis!

Though, it's tough to beat such groups like the Benedictines of Mary at Ephesus....


Favorite Spiritual Author?

Joan Carroll Cruz takes this title, without a doubt. Her works on incorrupt saints (The Incorruptibles)  and Eucharistic miracles are among my favorite spiritual books to read. 

Goodreads

Favorite Prayer?

Either the Memorore (a prayer of petition to the Blessed Virgin) or the prayer to St. Michael. Or the Angelus, which commemorates the Incarnation of Christ. I can't really decide.....


Favorite Marian Devotion?

It's a tie between the Rosary and the Seven Sorrows. I do tend to lean towards the Seven Sorrows more, since I'm a little more engaged (it's very easy to slip off into a reverie when I'm praying the Rosary....).


Favorite Pope?

Frankly, I believe this honor goes to St. Pius X. I must admit that my studies of the Popes has been rather limited, but I do remember reading his biography and being really impressed by his fortitude and how he opened up the Eucharist to children. 


Favorite Biblical Character?

St. Mary Magdalen. She gives me a lot of hope that I can also overcome my sins and become a great saint. She is also the inspiration for one of my book characters (Magda from The White Rose :) )


Favorite Catholic Movie?

A Man for all Seasons.

I have this obsession for English Tudor history, especially the time of the break with Rome. My guess is that it is quite a bit to do with my mother's Anglican/Episcopalian roots. And as I may have mentioned, St. Thomas More is one of my favorite saints.


Favorite Catholic Song?  

Sicut Cervus, written by Palestrina is probably one of the most beautiful polyphonic pieces that I've ever sung. It's based off of Psalm 42. 




Favorite Encyclical?

"On Rural Life" written by Pope Pius XII

I have several excerpts of it in a page on this blog. It really resonates with me, because it really cements my own positions on agriculture, the value of humility, toil and stewardship, as well as what duties a farmer holds in a society at large.


Favorite Marian Hymn

Hail Holy Queen Enthroned Above!




Favorite book written by a saint?

I would have to say The Introduction to the Devout Life by St. Francis de Sales. Everything else that I've read is either not written by a Saint or I found difficult to read.


Favorite Catholic meme?




I do actually have this reaction on occasion - but even more so when I see religious in their traditional habits :)


For fellow Traddies, I recommend looking up Speck the Altar Boy comics. They center around a very sassy altar boy who defends the Traditional Mass in a very Chestertonian style. Very entertaining.


Favorite Liturgical Season

Easter!

Mainly because of all the Alleluias and the Vidi Aquam chant - which I love more than the Asperges that we normally sing the rest of the year.

You see, before every High Mass, we have an antiphon that is chanted while the priest sprinkles holy water on the congregation. The Asperges is derived from Psalm 50 and the Vidi Aquam is derived from a verse in Ezechiel. Both antiphons talk relate to the action (the sprinkling of water), but the Vidi Aquam is more solemn and pretty in my opinion.




Favorite Feast Day: 

August 15, The Assumption of Mary

Many non-Catholics are not going to be familiar with this particular feast day, so I will explain it here:

Our Lady lived for a few decades after the Resurrection, ministering to Her Son's Apostles and living in the nearby city of Ephesus. After 3 days of death, the soul of the Blessed Virgin Mary was reunited with her body, and both body and soul were "assumed" into heaven by the power of God. You see, She couldn't ascend into heaven, since that power was reserved for God himself. This fact was discovered by the Apostles, who came, in similar fashion to the holy women to Jesus's tomb, to anoint the body of Our Lady....and found it missing.

It was on this feast day I received First Communion, and was probably the happiest day of my life.


Favorite Part of Mass?

Holy Communion. Besides receiving my Lord and Savior under the appearance of bread, I love all the communion hymns that I've sung so far which includes Jesu Rex Admirabilis, Ave Maris Stella, Pange Lingua, etc.



Favorite Sacred Hymn?

It is most definitely Pange Lingua. It's a beautiful hymn composed by St. Thomas Aquinas. I'll link a video here:





Favorite Gospel?

The Gospel of Luke is my favorite out of the four Gospels. There are many interpersonal stories and miracles that are documented there (including a lot of medical miracles, which fascinate me the most for some reason). It's also the Gospel in which the Blessed Virgin Mary is most present.


Favorite Martyr?

St. Miguel Pro, who was a priest during the Mexican Revolution. He is most famous for uttering "Viva Christo Rey!" ("Long Live Christ the King!) before being shot by a firing squad, but the rest of his story is also fascinating.


Favorite approved title of Our Lady?

Our Lady of Good Success

This title is connected to a vision to a nun named Mother Mariana of Jesus Torres in Quito, Ecuador. In this vision from the late 1400s, it was prophesied that in the 19th and 20th centuries, Masonry and impurity will abound and various Sacraments will be attacked, including Holy Eucharist, Holy Orders, Matrimony and Extreme Unction. It's a really chilling prophecy, but not one without hope. There are a lot more miraculous incidents in regard to this vision. You can read more HERE.

My Junior Sodality took this title of Our Lady as it's main patroness, which is where I learned first about this vision.

My second favorite title is Our Lady of Fatima. Appearing in 1917 to three shepherd children in Fatima, Portugal, Our Lady prophesied that if Russia (and Russia alone) was not consecrated to the Immaculate Heart of Mary, not only would a second world war break out but Russia would spread many errors into the world. In addition to this prophecy, Our Lady also called for increased reparation in the form of prayer and penance. My family is very devoted to this title of Our Lady and my father and brother will participate in the First Saturday devotion, which is associated with Our Lady of Fatima.


Favorite Bible Translation?

The Douay-Rheims version. It's the closest English translation we have to the Latin Vulgate, which is derived from the ancient tongues of Greek, Hebrew and Aramaic.


Religious Life or Married? 

I firmly believed that God has called me to the married state since I was 15. So unless God throws a 2-by-4 kind of incident that proves me otherwise, I'm looking to marry and raise several children for the Faith.




Homeschooling or Catholic School?

I've been "homeschooled" pretty much my entire life, so I see the benefits and the drawbacks of it. On one hand, I have total control over what my children learn, but at the same time, they could be too sheltered and not be able to be soldiers of Christ. Homeschooling also takes much time, and I'm not a natural teacher.

Tragically, many "Catholic" schools have departed from tradition and solid teaching to chase after scandal and poor formation. There are a few Traditionalist academies, but these are few and far between.

So, despite the drawbacks, I believe I shall pursue homeschooling until a better alternative is found.


G.K. Chesterton or C.S. Lewis?

I haven't read much of Lewis's non-fiction works, but I believe my answer would still be Chesterton, without a doubt. His essays are delightfully sarcastic, but they drive the point home nicely.


St. Peter or St. Paul? 

St. Paul. His conversion always fascinated me, especially around the time of my own conversion. He is much more eloquent than St. Peter is too (sorry St. Peter....).


St. Thomas Aquinas or St. Augustine? 

I'll be honest, even though I have St. Augustine listed as one of my favorite saints, I much prefer St. Thomas's approach to teaching. I tried slogging through some of Augustine's writings, namely his Confessions, and found them too convoluted to get much out of.



And now, I shall tag.....

Nicole Dust @ Legend of a Writer
Anna @ Starlit Sea
Ceci @ Ceci Creates

and anyone of my other Catholic acquaintances that haven't done this tag!


Your turn! Do you prefer St. Peter or St. Paul? What religious articles do you travel with? What is your favorite parable? Any burning questions about Catholics that you'd like to learn the answer to? Chat with me in the comments!

Old-fashionably yours,

Catherine

Being in a room with off-white walls made me realize two things. One that off--white is very dingy. And two, white on utilitarian surfaces is just a bad idea in general.

Even before Operation Vintage Makeover had become solid in my mind, I wanted to paint my bedroom. The color purple has stuck with me since I first thought of this idea back in high school. At that time, replacing the carpet was not in reach, so I had to find a color that would suit the peach carpet. I know I had grabbed a few paint chips, but there was a fear that the colors would have been discontinued - so I decided pick up some new paint chips.

If you recall from my very first post about Operation Vintage Makeover, you will know that I had a lot of purples to choose from. If it wasn't obvious from the pictures, I literally grabbed every single paint chip that had a purple sounding name to them.

Once I got them home, I laid them out on my horrible peach carpet and looked them over. Right away, I eliminated almost all of the dark purples and the more bluish ones.

All of the colors which I eliminated.

The reason why I eliminated the darker purples is because I didn't want to make the room seem small. Even though my bedroom is actually pretty big, I don't want to lose any "space" that the eye may miss because of paint color.

And the reason that I eliminated the bluish purples is because my house has 5 shades of blue in it already. Not that I dislike blue - Caribbean blue is among my favorite colors. I wanted more of a definitive color that stood out more.

Before I go much further, I should explain the chips on the bottom. Originally, before I knew that I was getting a set of furniture from my grandparents, I was going to paint the trim color a cream color to match the bedroom set that I currently had. In a similar manner to the purples, I had picked up a slew of creams to see what matched. All of those cream colors on the bottom didn't match my set very well.

It turns out that I picked up those cream chips in vain, because I'm not matching the cream trim after all, but going with a white trim instead.

Anyway, moving on!!

As noted by the picture below, I stuck to the lighter end of the purple scale, and choosing more bold, reddish purples. Frankly, I think they are much prettier and more feminine.

All the purples that I considered at first

From October 2017 to January 2019, it remained like this. The reason was that I had to clean out my room before I even thought about paint again. And if you saw my previous OVM post about my cleaning process, you will understand why it took so long to clean out my room, LOL.

So fast forward now to mid-January 2019. My room had now been *mostly* cleaned out (there still was some random loose stuff that needed a home, but isn't that true always??). And so, since the money for the carpet had been set aside and the room was almost ready, I thought it was time to bring out my paint choices.

So I got all of those paint chips in the above picture and spread them out on the living room floor. With the help of my mother, we eliminated a few more of the darker shades and came up with two sets of 8.

My set is on top, while my mother's is on the bottom

As you can see, my mother stuck to more of the lighter side, while I stuck to more of a medium, bolder color palette. Frankly, I was afraid that if I stuck to a lighter shade that it wouldn't look very purple. And since I was coming off of off-white walls, I much preferred an actual color and not a tint.

However, there was one color that both of us had in our top 8. For reference, it is the first one in my set and the fourth one in my mother's lineup.

It's a Valspar shade called Sassy Lilac.

Since Pinterest was being a brat (glares), we do a screenshot instead.

Oddly enough, I had an old paint chip of this shade from when I was considering painting the room several year ago. I believe that it was Providence that I chose this color again as my first choice.

So in Februrary, I went to Lowes to pick up a sample or two. And what do you know? Sassy Lilac was one of the few shades that I could snap up from the shelf. (Providence, I swear.)

So I bought it as well as some tubs for all of the other loose junk and headed home to start the prep for my room - which will be featured soon!

Your turn with the mic! If you had a dream color for your room, what would it be? What is your favorite color? Do you like painting? Tell me in the comments!


Old-fashionably yours,

Catherine

For months and months and months, I have promised all of you blog readers a photo dump of my on-going bedroom renovation project known as Operation Vintage Makeover.

Well, I'm pleased to announce that today, I'm delivering on that promise! This post will concentrate on the cleaning process, which occurred between October 2017-February 2019. Photos were taken several months apart to give a semblance of progress - I should note that I didn't constantly work on my room, but tackled it in small pieces.

And now, I will escort my dear reader into the Wayback machine and we will go back to October 20, 2017. It was on this rather ordinary, unremarkable date that Catherine Hawthorn kicked off her room renovation by taking several pictures. Lot of work they were, LOL.

To give you a bit of background, I had just come home the previous week from a failed stint at an out-of-state graduate school. 3 months before, I had come home from a summer internship, which was also out-of-state. And then 3 months before that, I had come home from graduating college (which was again....out-of-state).

Needless to say, there was a lot of luggage...in addition to all the other mess that had been steadily accumulating over the other 12 or so years that I've lived in this room....which you can see in all it's glory in the following 3 photos.

East Wall - taken October 20, 2017

South/West Walls - October 20, 2017

West/North Walls - October 20, 2017

East/South Walls - December 18, 2017

With most of the luggage and "big" items such as the appliances moved into a "permanent" home in the basement, much more of my room was not only visible, but acceptable. In this picture, you can now see the desk and some of the storage containers that I house my craft supplies in.

It was now time to sort out all of the junk. And believe me, that was a task in and of itself. Already, several bags of clothes had been taken out of the closet and clothes drawers, which allowed me to close them properly for the first time in years *ignores dresser drawer hanging open*.

You may notice that at night, the room is extremely dark. There is, in fact, no central light or chandelier in the room. True to the inexplicable style choice of the nineties, there is no central lamp source and the two switches in the room only control half of the outlets. I could write a whole treatise on how nineties lighting really stinks.

West Wall - December 18, 2017

For anyone that is wondering, the three pictures above my bed are The Divine Mercy, Our Lady of the Angels, and a holy card with Mary's picture on it. That latter holy card is extremely precious to me, as a priest friend of ours gave me it in receipt of a picture that I gave him as a child. 


By the time March 2018 rolled around, I had figured out how to fit most of the room into one panoramic picture instead of three. I simply had to stand in my doorway....figures that it would be a simple solution to a seemingly daunting problem.The only wall that isn't visible is the one with my closet.

East-West Walls - March 10, 2018

*gasp* There is indeed a floor!

During this time, I had packed up a lot of the extra craft supplies and clearing out all of the broken trash that was littering the place. I told you, the packrat gene is strong with this one.

About six months later, I finally was able to clear most everything off the floor and vacuum it for the first time in ages. Of course, I had to document it with a picture - my family wouldn't believe it otherwise. Literally, they didn't. I may or may not have a reputation....

East-West Walls - October 20, 2018

And there is the peach carpet in all it's disgustedness. Actually, to be quite honest, that's not the worst of it. The furniture is hiding a lot of the stains. When we do the carpet reveal, you'll see what I mean. 

I didn't realize this until I was adding in the captions, but this above photo was taken ONE YEAR TO THE DATE of the first photos being taken. Talk about freaky?!

But does it surprise anyone that it took a full year to clear out all the junk on the floor, considering what I started with?? 



This next picture may seem out of place, as there are items on the floor again. But, I assure you, it is indeed a later picture.

East-West Walls - February 9, 2019

Had I decided to take this picture in the daylight, the differences would have been far more noticeable. Because of this operator error, I'll spoil what's different.

All of the art was stripped from the walls, so that the latter could be spackled. Ugh, there were so many holes in those walls, I wish I could joke about it. 

In the far corner next to the bookcase, there is an empty space where the desk was. Within a few days of that picture being taken, the desk had been moved out into the family office to house my desktop. Believe me, it was a heap more useful that that silly record cabinet....

Also, the bed has been raised about 5 inches in this photo. In order to have the under-bed storage actually *hem* go under the bed, I had to raise it up. Besides, I was used to having my bed raised in college and missed the height.

Oh, and in this picture is a sneak peak of the black lace veil that I am in the middle of making at this moment (it's the white board with the black flowers on it). 



This last picture was taken on the morning of the 16th of February - again, a rather unimportant date. Between February 9 and February 16, a lot of things happened. All of the the loose items got packed away, the storage cabinets and the closet door (among other things) were shoved into my brother's room (which was unoccupied, at the time), furniture was moved....so much work!

East-West Walls - February 16, 2019

You can get a foretaste of what is about to happen from the paint samples on the wall. These had been added days previously, but that is for another time.

(is it just me, or does the room seem a lot smaller because of the lack of...stuff? Weird how the eye tricks things, doesn't it? 

Soon after this picture was taken, there was another moving of furniture, which will be much more apparent when you see the post detailing the actual painting process, which will be in a couple of weeks!

And now it's your turn! What's the longest time you've taken to clean your room? Are you also a packrat? What is something that you've left in your room from when you were a child? Any mystery items that you found in my room that you want to know the story of? Chat with me in the comments! 

Old-fashionably yours,

Catherine

Happy Lady Day 2019!

While most of the secular world is celebrating the communist holiday International Women's Day, I've chosen to mark out this day with fellow traditionalists by celebrating Lady Day. You can find out more information on this year's Lady Day celebration HERE.

I mentioned in last year's post that true femininity revolved around the interior. Taking this years' theme about courageous motherhood in stride, I want to document one aspect on how my mother and I work together to provide food for the family - making apple butter.

Does anyone recall reading the Felicity books from American Girl, when Felicity was helping her mother make apple butter? That scene always resonated with me because we go through a lot of apple butter. My brother Robert loves a thick layer of it on practically every piece of bread....and we do give some away to our car mechanic (after all, it's a full time job keeping our fleet of used cars running in tip top shape....)

So, when we were going through the stores this fall....it was no surprise that the apple butter was running a little short. 

So, what is a woman to do...but roll her sleeves up and get to work!

The above picture proves that even in my mid-twenties, I still need guidance from my mother on some things....

Bonehead Mistake #1: Forgot to add water while jars were boiling. Result: Water boiled away.

Remedy: more water.

Proceed to Bonehead Mistake #2: Adding cold water to boiling hot glass jars.

Let me 'splain something about glass: adding cold water to hot glass shocks it. And when glass gets shocked....it breaks. In this case, the bottom of the jars cracked away from the rest of the jar.

There were only two casualties, thank heavens, and the glass was very easy to clean up.

So a word to the wise.....always add HOT water when sterilizing jars!!!!!! 





And there is the finished product! All that is left is to label it and stick in the pantry shelf....where I dare say, it won't last more than a few months, LOL.

Working alongside of my mother during this past year or so, has really cemented our relationship further. It is not just teaching me skills that I will need in my future, it's giving that courageously hidden example of embracing the cross of womanhood.

Now it is your turn to talk! What quality time activities do you do with your mother? Do you have a favorite canned food? Chat with me in the comments!

Old-fashionably yours,

Catherine